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If you take a bottle of alcohol to a party & u take it back, you're a bad guest

May 28, 2025 · 1:56

Summary

A rider takes a hard stance: if you bring a bottle to a party and take it back, you're a terrible guest. Kareem pushes back, comparing it to bringing a half-eaten cake. The party is over, so why not reclaim what's yours? The rider isn't having it. She argues leftovers belong to the host as a thank you for hosting, unless they insist you take them home. Then comes the racial observation: white people are the ones who pull this move. "I learned BYOB from white people," she says. They agree on one exception. If it's truly BYOB and the host isn't providing anything, taking your bottle is fair game. The conversation ends with a provocative take about body counts and sexual satisfaction before the rider exits at Northland Avenue.

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So, what's your take? If you take a bottle of alcohol to a party and it doesn't get consumed and you take that back, you're a terrible guest. 100% agree. Someone is hosting a party and you are saying, "Thank you for hosting this party." You know what? I disagree. Actually, I do want it back. Why? I brought it for everyone to enjoy.

Okay. And they enjoyed, but now there's leftovers. Why can't I take it home? I I actually I'm I was in agreement, but now I'm in disagreement. Because if I'm bringing, let's say I bring a cake.

Yes. And the cake is half eaten, right? I want the second half of the cake. You're going to take that cake back. That cake diabolical. I want the second half of the cake.

But it's for the host. No, no, no, no, no. It's for the party and the party's over.

Okay. I disagree. I think it's for the host. And whatever they want to do with the cake after, whether they want to eat it, share it with friends. And the same goes with alcohol. What I usually do is I say, "You can keep it." And then they say, "No, no, no. Take it with you." And then I go, "Okay." If they insist and are like, "Listen, no one's going to drink this. Please, we have so much." Then yeah, take it back. But if you're doing that on your own accord, shame on you. Yeah. Has this happened to you? Have you hosted? It has I do. It has happened to me before. And I will say it's certain demographic of people that do this type of thing.

Whom? White people.

Whites. No, whites. What? Yes. Really? Yes. Whites. I learned Bob from white people. Like I'm having a party, it's Bob.

Bob. That's weird. And so I guess the caveat for this would be if it is a BYOB event and the host is not offering any food or alcohol for you, then it is okay to take your alcohol back. That's good etiquette.

Yeah, I can get behind that. All right. Anything else? If you sleep with a man and he doesn't make you come, you don't have to add him to your body count. This is Northland Avenue.

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